@Effortless@noagendasocial.com @notaslut They're just so unhappy, so they throw themselves into idealism or fads. None of it works.
@sullybiker @Effortless @notaslut polygamy's entirely possible without cheating. cheating is a sign that someone shouldn't be in a serious relationship in the first place.
@opal @Effortless @sullybiker I believe this. It takes VERY special people to make it work. Putting all those pieces in a neat line and keeping it neat is incredibly complicated because unique people evolve differently. The chances of keeping something like that well-maintained is less than 10%.
@sullybiker @notaslut @Effortless it's complicated when you're stuck in them. i've had a codependent personality before but luckily i didn't get hurt too badly by it. meanwhile, not naming names, but others don't get out nearly as unscathed
@sullybiker @opal @Effortless it’s only “complicate” because it is either broken or breaking.
