@rixx@chaos.social I have a tiny instance, but I used to moderate a forum and so much of this is familiar. Particularly those users that are absolutely determined to cause trouble. They drove me crazy.
@rixx@chaos.social I actually gave it up in the end because the stress was overriding any enjoyment I had. I warned the owner and he didn't listen, and the place shut down.
@rixx@chaos.social We lost a wonderful community because they allowed some motivated bullies to set the tone of the place.